Wednesday 25 September 2013

I Am A Prostitute And I Am Now Dating One Of My Clients, But I Think He Is Ashamed Of Me

I’m dating a man 18 years older than me. He’s been very good to me. I love him so much!! And I know he loves me. But, I’m confused about knowing whether or not if he sees me as long term or short term. First off, I met him on an escorting site, (Yes, I did escort because I was desperate in finding a job). But, as I was leaving the industry, telling him I’m moving to another state and get my life together, he offered to come to see me.

He paid me for the first few visits, until I caught feelings for him and didn’t want to accept his money. Now, it’s a year later. We’ve still been seeing each other, and we’ve gotten sort of serious. He feels very strongly about me seeing other people due to it being called cheating! So, we are in a relationship. I’ve met his close friends but not his mom and daughter (he is divorced). And, he hasn’t met mine yet either. I’ve asked him about being introduced to his mom and daughter, and he said he would, but when it came down to it he reneged on it.

I love him so much, but I don’t want to waste my time. I’m on my feet now. I have a good job. But, I just want to know from a man’s perspective how would you view me? Is he ashamed of me? I’m so confused.

Photo of the day: Lagos leaving Nigeria behind! Lol


This is a photo of the Lagos State Government's ten-lane Lagos-Badagry Expressway and railway line. Erm...yeah, people are already trading on the rail tracks. Lol.

The Lagos –Badagry expressway is a Federal Government road which is currently being expanded to 10 lanes to accommodate a BRT lane and light rail through collaborative efforts of the state govt, the federal govt and international financial agencies.

Julius Berger is handling the 10 lane road segment while China Civil Engineering Construction Corporation (CCECC), is handling the Light Rail section of the road.

$US450 million Powerball jackpot winner wants old life back

“WILD” Willie Seeley’s life changed forever last month when he won a share in a Powerball jackpot worth $US450 million.


Now, the former warehouse manager wishes he could “disappear”.

Seeley and 15 co-workers from a New Jersey garage instantly became the envy of millions when they scooped the whopping win back in August. But merely a month after being thrust into the spotlight, a weary Willie and Donna say they are wishing for their old lives back. “There are days I wish we were back to just getting paid every two weeks,” he said in one of his few interviews since finding fame, NBC News reported.

You have to change your whole way of life, but we didn’t want to change the way we lived. We liked the way we lived.” Willie admitted he still doesn’t feel like a rich bloke: “I get cheap attacks ... It’s when you look at something you need, and think: Hell, I can’t afford that.”

The pair has turned down a number of reality TV offers from the likes of National Geographic, A & E and Ryan Seacrest Productions, and still, the phone continues to ring. They’ve also endured a never-ending procession of moochers, including complete strangers claiming to be relatives.

Donna even went so far as to call their winnings “the curse”, and the private pair say they are relieved to be handing the limelight over to the winner of last week’s $US400 million Powerball pot

Willie’s share of the $US450 million pot was divided by two other winning tickets, and then further divided by his 15 co-workers. After taxes his share was less than $US4 million, which he says “ain’t s*** in today’s economy.”

Yet, it was enough for the couple to quit their jobs, pay cash for two shiny new vehicles, re-roof their house, pay the mortgage off and provide financial assistance to family members.

And what’s the last thing he did with the leftover cash? He purchased a remote cabin out of town where he and his wife can escape the hype and the mounting number of “long-lost relatives”.

The 3 Types Of Ladies That Nigerian Men Will Quickly Notice


1. The woman with the nicest body. If your stomach sticks out further than your breasts, or your butt, you have automatically been disqualified. That is not attractive. The winner will always be the woman who is fit/thin with either a large and perky butt, or very large br3asts. If the woman is blessed to have both a large butt and large br3ast on a fit/thin frame, she will triumph over the rest of the women.

2. The most stylish woman. Ladies, please be careful with the way you dress. There are ways to dress for attention that will still show people that you are a very respectable woman. Remember, when you are in a group of women your main goal is to be the FIRST one to catch the man’s eye.

You have to be the first to stand out, if you are not the first to stand out, another woman’s ONE eye catching quality will outshine all that you have to offer. Make sure you are dressed nice from head to toe. Also, dress in BRIGHT colors. Men are like dogs, when they see bright clothing, or shiny jewelry, it will catch their eye. That’s what you need, once you catch eye, it’s up to you to make it work.

3. The quiet one. If you are outshined in dressing, if you are outshined in beauty, if you are outshined in body type, you have to use your WIT. You may think that the best way would be to open your mouth, and try and over talk everyone else to make sure that you get attention. Sure, you’ll get attention, but I guarantee you it will not be the kind of attention that you want.

When you are quiet, and I mean QUIET. Say NOTHING. When the guys are talking to your friends. Act uninterested. Make sure you stay around the group. But act uninterested, use your eyes to catch eye contact with the man you find interesting. But have BLANK stare. In fact, catch his eye.

Blink once or twice, with an expressionless face. And I PROMISE you, he will be curious about you. Say NOTHING. Your strength is in your mystery. Everyone will want to know about you. Because you have not readily displayed yourself. Remember, your strength is in your MYSTERY. He’ll know you’re thinking something.

He won’t know WHAT. He won’t know if you are judging him. He won’t know if you are admiring him. It is important to keep your expression BLANK. Make sure that he cannot read your emotions. Practice this in the mirror before attempting to use this tactic.

My question is, guys, is this all true?!

LADIES ONLY!!MUST READ: Men With Smaller Testicles Are Better Fathers - Research

According to a new research, men with small testicles are better parents. Researchers found that fathers with smaller testicles are more likely to be involved in child care. Previous studies have also suggested that decreases in testosterone may suppress mating efforts, potentially channeling a man’s energy toward the care of infants. Odd research, what do you think?

Jonathan Speaks With His Enemy, Saraha Reporters [VIDEO]


I bet this chat could not have taken place in Nigeria as the SSS or other state actors would have arrested this beautiful lady for daring to work with Jonathan's media enemy, Sahara Reporters. Watch the video to see the drama that unfolded between she and "Our President" on the streets of New York.